What would you decided to do if you discovered you were about to have a child; have a gender reveal event, wait until delivery to find out, and/or raise your child in gender neutral way and why?

This week you have a choice in the discussion prompt…only pick one of these to answer.
Choice #1
Isn’t it interesting that there is an emphasis on “gender reveal” events for new parents now and at the same time a growing number of families are deciding to dress their children in gender neutral clothing and/or give them gender neutral names. What would you decided to do if you discovered you were about to have a child; have a gender reveal event, wait until delivery to find out, and/or raise your child in gender neutral way and why?
OR Choice #2
How do children learn how women and men are supposed to behave? Are some of differences built into us even before we are born? How is that possible?